This is surely an angle, but it is not the major one. The major one is that by avoiding involuntary pregnancies whoever takes the pill gains first mover advantage in securing “best” cock.

That is. it is primarily a means to outcompete other wimminz. An arms race, because eventually all take it, and then you get a completely new situation.

Before the pill women were engaging in a “surplace” race: the last one to put out got the “best” cock. Because the first one to put out without a marriage contract would run a gigantic risk to have unrecognized children and thus become unacceptable to other men, and each wimminz needed a man to to male parental investment. And since they knew all other women had the same issue, thus all wimminz knew they had to hold out and all others would as well.

With the pill the first woman that takes the pill and puts out without risking an involuntary pregnancy gets the “best” cock, because the others are still holding out. Eventually all of them take the pill, and all of them then have an incentive to put out as quickly as possible to get the sexy badboys they all crave.

The effect of the pill on control of male fertility is very secondary: because it allows them to deny fertility only to the men they are already fucking. Because not fucking a man has always been available as a means of controlling his fertility.

And since the pill allows wimminz to go straight and fast for the sexy badboys they crave, if the latter really wanted a wimminz to have his babies, she would find it very difficult to say no, because she needs the sexy badboy more than he needs her. Indeed in some communities they do have them regardless.

The pill may have a secondary effect: that it expands the range of men that wimminz will casually fuck, because they can do a “rainy day” NSA fuck with someone they are not wildly attracted to without getting stuck with the risk of getting pregnant with them.

However the pill has had a longer term effect that is still playing out: right now the gender that has the greater risk from the consequences of an involuntary pregnancy is the male one, and thus males should become more reluctant than wimminz to have sex, especially without commitment.

In the past a wimminz who had sex run a big risk of getting involuntarily pregnant and to have the children unrecognized by the father, and therefore had to fund the pregnancy and childbearing entirely on her own, and becoming far less desirable to other men.

Currently, between pill and abortion, wimminz have essentially zero risk of an involuntary» pregnancy, and in case of voluntary pregnancy (legal or biological) she can dump the cost largely on others.

For a man instead there is substantial risk of involuntary pregnancy, and then he surely gets to pay towards it even if he did not want it, and that makes him less desirable to other wimminz (indirectly: less resources to take advantage of). Unless he always uses condoms, even within a (supposedly) monogamous relationship, and is careful about their disposition.

Here I think you make clear what distinguishes a wimminz from a woman: for a wimminz every act of sex is purely (or primarily and by far) a trade. It is a sale from the man to her if it is NSA/short term fling, and it is a sale from her to the man if it is part of a committed/long term relationship. The wimminz think that they are traders and all that matters is the leverage they have, the “I/you need you/me less than you/me needs me/you” story.

Your semi-reasonable young skank-ho is just computing her trading leverage with you, and coming to a not so exciting conclusion, even if it is not that favourable to her. I am surprised that she accepts it as it is (not making a question of right or wrong here) and does not take refuge in denial, but then you did say that she is unusually smart. A keeper of sort. Perhaps if she had not corrupted herself with bad choices in the past she might have become a woman, but path dependency happens.

BTW, even with a woman, NSA sex or relationship sex (never mind pregnancies) with her is in part a trade; that’s inevitable, practicalities matter. The main difference between a woman and a wimminz is that for a woman the trade aspect is one of the aspects and not the primary or sole aspect. In case you were still minded to have a story with a woman if you found one (I did find a very few in my life, one only a few years ago, too bad I did not have the chances for staying with them). But I guess you know the main divide.

It helps me stay sane in an insane world. It allows me to grapple with and comprehend…this vile reality we call our lives.

Many thanks!

This is a FUNDAMENTAL issue that NO FUCKER GETS.

For Wimminz the whole subject of contraception is NOT about controlling their own fertility, it is about controlling MALE fertility.

These guys who talk about the male pill don’t get that, yes, it pisses the wimminz off because it given men control of their fertility TOO, but it still doesn’t take away the control the wimminz have of male fertility.

This is why older wimminz universally hate seeing older men with younger wimminz, it is an end run around their collective control of male fertility.