AfOR – So what’s the best thing for your kids? For you to have a man in your life, or for you to not have a man in your life?
Wimminz – To have a man in my life.
AfOR – So what’s the best way to make sure you don’t have a man in your life? To put him first, or to put your kids first?
Wimminz – (subdued) to put my kids first.
AfOR –
Wimminz – gobble
And it really is that simple, not to make a wimminz think, that’s a hopeless task, but to determine if this wimminz in question is a completely unredeemable skank ho that you never want to put your cock anywhere near, or a wimminz worth fucking.. AWALT of course.
Anything born with a penis that WON’T present wimminz with stark choices like that ain’t a man, it’s a niggerz.
Niggerz only ever get skank ho’s, still AWALT, but bottom of the barrel AWALT.
Filters, which is what a red pill attitude is, they don’t so much, when it comes to wimminz, filter out type A and let through type B, because our filters are always nested, so what they do do is present to second third and fourth stage filters a *different* selection of wimminz than a blue pill attitude will get you.
There is no quick questionnaire or set of pass / fail tests you can give, you pretty much have to live a righteous lifestyle, and by doing so you attract less of the wrong kind of people and more of the right kind of people.
Live a righteous lifestyle, and you will find that the conversations you do have with wimminz will change, and indeed the type of wimminz you end up having conversations with will change.
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Back in the day, there was a biker’s saying, what’s the difference between a Honda CBX and a Honda C90?
The answer was you don’t mind if your friends see you riding a CBX.
If you apply this to wimminz, you are in for a world of fucking hurt.
Shit Afor, I read through all your posts now.. and: thank you.
I’m 29 and only started thinking about 2 years ago. And really started thinking about 5 month ago when I stumbled over the manosphere. But what you write here is the truth. Reality. And that is really rare.
For me the biggest challenge was (and probably still is): AWALT. This is a complete turn on everything I thought and was fed in school and media. That’s a reset of a believe system. On the contrary I never felt better about myself. Fuck, I always “thought” marriage and children would be thing for me.
I see this this in so many of my mates who are marrying at around my age or the guys I went to university with. They have no clue, all beeing very proud to have found the one. The same goes in an economic sense. I’m from Bavaria, Germany. This is rich country here. Fucking honey and milk all over the place. And everybody thinks that won’t change – let’s buy a house honey!. But the shit will hit the fan. That’s inevitable. I just hope I have a few years left to learn some more before then.
So again, thanks for providing this… well maybe you’d have to call it wisdom.
Comment by stefan — August 20, 2013 @ 8:25 pm
Stefan: Congratulations on your English. Ihre kompetenz ist sehr gut.
This blog is a rare find, and I wish I had been told these things from my teenage years. It would have saved me a lot of time and money. You are right to question the “script” of marriage and consumerism. Some of my friends are already getting divorced, after only marrying a few years ago! It is a disaster for these men. They lose everything. This is a game one only wins by not playing. Stay cool! 🙂
Comment by 8oxer — August 21, 2013 @ 9:53 pm
afor is the king of the manosphere. No one comes close to delivering the full truth like AFOR. Thank you AFOR for your Wisdom and guidance.
Stefan, Don’t give up on having kids, after I had mine nothing else really matters. Lucky for me they are all sons.
Comment by Atlas — August 21, 2013 @ 10:20 pm
>Live a righteous lifestyle, and you will find that the conversations you do have with wimminz will change, and indeed the type of wimminz you end up having conversations with will change.
This.
Comment by B — August 22, 2013 @ 9:49 pm