Had an interesting convo today, while I was out and about after shopping on amazon, on the subject of wimminz taking deadbeat dads to the cleaners via the secret family courts.
It was interesting because this person used to be a staunch team cunt apologist, to the point where previously she would never listen to a word anyone said to the contrary.
Today I said a few things, like ok so lets just assume everything the lying skank ho mommie said about the deadbeat dad is true, it won’t be, but lets just assume it is, answer me these points;
- How come the grandparents don’t get to see the kids?
- How come the aunts and uncles don’t get to see the kids?
- How come the “not family but immediate social circle” don’t get to see the kids?
- How come the skank ho mommy is always playing some sort of baiting game with fuckbook posts, over a guy who she claims she wishes she never met?
- How come 5 years later the deadbeat dad has largely rebuilt his life, and is still on good terms with all his friends and employers and acquaintances?
- How come 5 years later the saintly skanky wimminz is even further down the career / public status / social standing ladder?
- How come the kids school friends do not feel welcome in the house run by skank ho mommy, so the kids are always visiting with their friends, rather than the other way around?
- How come when the skanky ho wimminz get everything they wanted, and the deadbeat dad gets nothing he wanted, the skanky ho’s never make anything with the surplus they are granted, and the deadbeat dad always makes do and amends?
- How come if the skanky ho’s move on, every man they meet is a deadbeat loser, and married couples shun them?
- How come if the man moves on, the new wimminz never buy any of the shit the skanky ho ex claimed, and plenty of married couples call him a friend and are happy for him to babysit their kids etc?
- How come if it is all for the best interests of the children, only one person is given total control over the rest of their lives until they turn 16?
- How come if everything we are told about the secret family courts and child services and the po-po and everything else is true, the problem for society is getting bigger every fucking year, given that the only people excluded from these kids lives is the deadbeat dads and their fucked up families and friends and employers and neighbours and so on?
And the upshot is she was really troubled by the fact that she could not give anything even remotely like and adequate answer to any of those, and I do not mean an adequate answer for me, I mean for her.
What does it all mean, she asks, so I mention the now ex couple that we both know, I say look at the lying skank ho, she had had to move from a semi rural place to a flat in the city, because NO FUCKING MONEY, meanwhile he has moved a couple of miles, and bought himself a van and set up in business, and now he employs two other guys, how come if the guy is such a deadbeat tosspot he can be ground down into the gutter, and give him a few years and he is back on his feet, and make MORE progress per month than he ever did when he had the millstone of the stupid skank ho hanging around his neck, when it should have been easier, two people to spread the load etc.
How come everyone is delighted to give him work and delighted to recommend him to others, if he is such an abusive lying deceitful violent wanker as his lying skank ho ex claims?… because no, he ain’t fucking cheap…
And then it came out.. as I said both me and this wimminz knew this couple before she went postal skank ho, so this wimminz has some serious structural problems with her house, one outer flank wall is bowing out away from all the first floor joists… the recent storms made all the gaps between the inside floors and end walls a couple of mm wider…
Turns out she has tried a few builders and none of them want to know, so in desperation she tries this guy, and he doesn’t want to know, his response is he is too busy, not interested, she thinks he blanked her because she still talks to his ex, I said so you think he *ain’t* busy and just turned down 15 grands worth of work because you talk to his ex.. that right?
No, she says, that doesn’t make sense does it, money is money, maybe he is busy enough he don’t need the money.
Aye I said, but you are still missing part of the picture.
He does plenty of work for his mates and family and friends at mates rates, but he doesn’t have to, he has enough proper paying work.
OH, she says, but, I didn’t want to choose sides.
Yeah, I say, so you chose not to side with him, like 99.9% of everyone who knew him did, when his psycho skank ho ex kicked off, and he ain’t forgotten that, and never will.
Those who did, their problems are his problems, that’s what friends and family is all about.
Those who didn’t, their problems are their own, and that reminds me, another question for you, how come the psycho skank ho’s are never there for anyone else, never have any ability or skills or trade or willingness to help, how come that was always the fucking deadbeat dad?
Thing is this wimminz herself has three kids who have grown up and flown the nest, and none of them are around to help either, mommie is out of sight and out of mind, none of them even live local.
Of course her husband had long since gone, and there is the thing, I knew this deadbeat guys dad, and his dad on his deathbed made this guy promise him something, it is something lots of dying dads ask their sons to promise, and 90% of sons keep those promises long after the grave has been filled.
The promises are always along the lines of “when I’m gone look out for this person and this person and this person, can I trust you to do that for me boy?” and the boy usually says yes and means it and the old man relaxes, he can go knowing that some of the shit he used to take care of will still be taken care of when he is gone.
Thanks to psycho skank ho ex’s, me and the guy who is the subject of this story figure we have between none and fuck all chances of ever having that deathbed conversation with our boys, so fuck em all.
This story of men’s deathbed promise requests, if you know about it you are a man who has buried his dad, no wimminz know about this shit, and none of us ever divulge it to anyone, least of those any wimminz or those who we have been tasked to look out for… it’s a fucking secret you take to your own grave.
I’d say these secret father and son deathbed promises are at least 10-15% of the glue that held society together in the past, and I’d say that 95% of those that used to happen no longer happen, because father and son never bonded, psycho skank ho mommy saw to that.
That shit takes 40 years to fix, and as a society, we may outlast this wimminz floor/wall joists, but not by much.
Now she is down to trying to find someone who will install “a ton of rocks in a mesh cube” piers / buttresses, it won’t cure the problem and she will never be able to sell the place, but at least she should be able to carry on living there.
Inside on the mantelpiece there is a picture of the place taken 20 years ago, it looks bloody lovely, but hubby was still married to her then, and he took care of all that maintenance shit.
I was talking about this to someone today, in my own small business I reckon my IT work along would cost between 5-7k every year if I had to pay someone to do it, I DIY of course but to many that just makes it invisible.
And the subject of IT brings me back to the beginning, got a new brix arriving tomorrow, so I’ll do a write up here about it… 200 odd quid for a new SFF PC from amazone…
